www.FinallyFiled
  • FinallyFiled
    • Newsletter Sign Up
  • Peace by Piece
  • Health Care Advocate
    • Understanding Insurance
    • Medical Information
    • Navigating your Benefits
  • Blogs
    • You Tube
  • Your Organized Home
    • Accessible Home >
      • Grand Central
      • Accessable Kitchens
      • Functional Fridge
      • Compatible Closet
      • Favorite Businesses >
        • Lupus of MN
        • Clothing
        • Junk Mail

You're going to get it

11/16/2015

0 Comments

 
Picture
Oftentimes when we return home for he holidays our families want to give us something. I'm not sure about you, but sometimes those parents and grandparents can be sneaky.  You get in your car and there is something in your back seat or trunk.  How are you going to argue taking it now? 

Most of the time the item is given because they really do want you to have it and it was thoughtful of them to think of you. 

So what happens when you don't really want it?  Navigating those waters can be tricky.  Being gently honest about taking the item usually is the best way to go. 

If it is something that just isn't you explain that you are honored that they thought of you, but perhaps it is better to give to someone else because of (insert reason).  Validate that you know that item is very special to them and that you want it to be treasured as much as they do. 

You might also ask if it is something that they just no longer use or want.  If so,. is it something you can donate for them.  Or suggest someone else who you know can use it. 

It's hard to say no.  We don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. If all else fails, take it and you can decide what to do with it later.

To Your Most Peaceful Self



0 Comments



Leave a Reply.

    Kimberly Dahline

    Welcome to my blog.  I am glad you are here to read the musings on organizing and finding balance in your life.  I hope you find them inspiring and motivating.  

    RSS Feed

    Archives

    November 2018
    April 2017
    February 2017
    January 2017
    December 2016
    October 2016
    August 2016
    July 2016
    June 2016
    April 2016
    March 2016
    February 2016
    January 2016
    December 2015
    November 2015
    October 2015
    September 2015
    June 2015
    January 2015
    November 2014
    September 2014
    July 2014
    June 2014
    April 2014
    February 2014
    January 2014
    December 2013
    November 2013
    October 2013
    September 2013
    August 2013
    July 2013
    June 2013
    April 2013
    March 2013
    February 2013
    January 2013
    December 2012
    November 2012
    October 2012
    September 2012

Advocacy through Organization
Kimberly Dahline, Your Organizational Advocate
Member of NAPO, NAPO, MN
​
612-382-6849
Love to hear from you on these social media sites.
Photos used under Creative Commons from micadew, Akirahnu, magnus.johansson10, Gabriel 'Briel' Rocha, symphony of love, tpower1978, chadmagiera, dwilkows, alexisjordanlewis, PHOTO VANOVA, JeepersMedia, lt. rance, Damanhur, Federation of Communities, Janitors, ** RCB **, vecree.com, Jim Larrison, TraumaAndDissociation, Prestonbot, quinn.anya, Neeta Lind, sample-image.com, wwward0, torbakhopper, WeGotKidz, m00by
  • FinallyFiled
    • Newsletter Sign Up
  • Peace by Piece
  • Health Care Advocate
    • Understanding Insurance
    • Medical Information
    • Navigating your Benefits
  • Blogs
    • You Tube
  • Your Organized Home
    • Accessible Home >
      • Grand Central
      • Accessable Kitchens
      • Functional Fridge
      • Compatible Closet
      • Favorite Businesses >
        • Lupus of MN
        • Clothing
        • Junk Mail